Frequently Asked Questions
Find answers to common questions about DNA Romance.
How does genetic compatibility work?
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Our genetic compatibility analysis focuses on HLA genes (Human Leukocyte Antigen) which play a crucial role in immune system function and mate selection. Research shows that people are naturally attracted to others with complementary HLA genes, leading to stronger romantic chemistry and healthier offspring.
Is my DNA data safe and private?
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Yes, absolutely. Your genetic data is encrypted and stored securely. We only analyze the specific genes related to compatibility and never share your data with third parties. You own your data and can delete it at any time.
How accurate is personality matching?
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Our personality matching is based on established psychological frameworks including MBTI personality types. While no system is perfect, personality compatibility has been shown to be a strong predictor of relationship satisfaction when combined with physical attraction and shared values.
What DNA testing services do you accept?
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We accept raw DNA data from most major testing services including 23andMe, AncestryDNA, MyHeritage, FamilyTreeDNA, and many others. You download your raw DNA file from your testing service and upload it to DNA Romance.
Do I need a DNA test to use DNA Romance?
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No! While DNA compatibility provides additional insights, you can use DNA Romance with personality matching alone. Many users start with personality matching and add DNA data later when they are ready.
How do I cancel my subscription?
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Where you cancel depends on where you subscribed. If you subscribed on our website, you can cancel from your account settings page.
If you subscribed inside our iPhone or iPad app, Apple manages the billing and we cannot cancel, change or refund it for you. Open Settings on your device, tap your name at the top, tap Subscriptions, choose DNA Romance, then tap Cancel Subscription.
If you subscribed inside our Android app, Google Play manages the billing and we cannot cancel, change or refund it for you. Open the Google Play Store, tap your profile icon, go to Payments and subscriptions, then Subscriptions, choose DNA Romance and tap Cancel subscription.
However you cancel, you keep access until the end of the period you have already paid for.
How can I delete my account?
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You can delete your account from the profile settings page. When you delete your account, all your personal data including any uploaded DNA data will be permanently removed from our servers.
How do we protect your data and fight scammers?
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We care about your privacy and have several measures in place to keep your personal data secure. You can help yourself by blocking any profiles you don't like, all users have free unlimited blocking.
If you identify a suspicious user, please use the "report" button and we will flag the account for further investigation. Scammers, troublemakers and those violating our terms and conditions will have their email and IP address banned from using DNA Romance for life.
What is genetic compatibility?
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Genetic compatibility refers to the match between the genes of two individuals, particularly with respect to their potential to have children together. Certain genetic combinations are more compatible and can result in healthier offspring.
Another way to evaluate genetic compatibility is through genetic testing for inherited disorders. Couples who are considering having children may choose to undergo genetic testing to determine their risk of passing on certain inherited disorders to their offspring. This can help them make informed decisions about their fertility options and the potential risks and benefits of having children together.
It is important to note that genetic compatibility is not the only factor that determines the health and well-being of a child. Other factors, such as the overall health and lifestyle of the parents, can also have a significant impact on the health of a child.
Why don't we show race?
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We've been asked by customers to include race but the definition of race is ambiguous. To allow people from minorities to find each other, we have provided options for matchmaking based on similar geographical location and shared religion or life philosophy. We certainly agree with the words of Jane Elliott: "There Is Only One Race. The Human Race" . So DNA Romance doesn't use race to describe the many different phenotypes of humans resulting from differences in population ancestry. While we do appreciate a person's preference for different colours, we are still considering how to thoughtfully accommodate our customers' preferences. Please send us an email if you have any helpful suggestions on this topic.
I already have a DNA test, how do I transfer my DNA data for matchmaking?
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We accept raw DNA data from most major testing services including 23andMe, AncestryDNA, MyHeritage, FamilyTreeDNA, and many others. You download your raw DNA file from your testing service and upload it to DNA Romance.
Does this work for relationships of LGBTQ people?
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Yes, evidence from several studies show that the same rules of attraction also apply for relationships between people in the LGBTQ community
How do you provide guidance on personality compatibility?
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To assist with our guidance on relationship compatibility, we have developed a scale that uses the 16 personality types from the Myers Briggs test, and provides maximum weight to compatible personality types, and less weight to personality types that tend to clash
Why is chemical attraction important?
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Research shows that the rare sensation of chemistry is felt by people who are genetically compatible. Our bodies are naturally programmed to feel receptive and welcoming to people who are genetically compatible. You can read more about how the genes for love influence our feelings of 'romantic chemistry', as well as influence other aspects of our relationships
Does DNA Romance sell DNA testing kits?
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Yes, you can purchase your personal DNA testing kit from DNA Romance right here
Can I transfer my raw DNA data from another company like 23andMe, Ancestry DNA, My Heritage, Family Tree DNA...?
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We accept raw DNA data from most major testing services including 23andMe, AncestryDNA, MyHeritage, FamilyTreeDNA, and many others. You download your raw DNA file from your testing service and upload it to DNA Romance.
What does it have to do with immune systems?
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Each of us has a unique combination of several hundred genes, corresponding to our immune responses, which protect us from some diseases and not others. Everyone is different and no one person is resistant to every disease known to humanity
Our sense of smell (olfactory system) is so highly evolved that we will find someone's smell to be pleasant if they are resistant to diseases that we aren't. Our sense of smell is wired to our brain and detects potential relationship partners who are resistant to different diseases. This is important, because when one partner is sick, then the other might remain healthy. Furthermore, children will inherit a more diverse set of genes from their parents (protecting them from more diseases than either parent alone)
The relationship between immune system genes and attraction (mate-pairing) is not exclusive to humans, major histocompatibility complex (MHC) dependent mate selection has been described in many vertebrates including fish, birds, and primates. Please refer to our
What about stigmatization or discrimination?
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Stigmatization and discrimination are important concerns when using new technologies and we respect individuals and their personal choices, regardless of their genetic, socio-economic, ethnic, cultural, educational, and religious backgrounds. We oblige global policies such as The Genetic Information Nondiscrimination Act , which was passed to bar the misuse of genetic information in the United States
I sent a message but didn't receive a reply. Does he/she like me?
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Don't take it to heart, it's likely they haven't checked their email or logged onto the site recently. If you don't want to interact with or see their profile again, hit the block "delete" button, or move them to your "maybe" list to see and communicate with later
Who owns my raw DNA data?
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You will always remain the owner of the personal data you provide, and we will never sell your DNA data to other companies! Your raw DNA data file is encrypted and stored in a secure location so that updates can be applied to your profile. You can delete your profile and raw DNA file at any time in the settings section of your DNA Romance account dashboard
How do you protect my privacy?
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We care about your privacy and have several measures in place to keep your personal data secure. We follow HIPAA privacy guidelines when handling your data and we don't sell DNA data to 3rd parties! We encrypt all data that is stored and the names contain a unique hashed path and other obfuscating elements. Access to the data is limited to key development personnel who have 2-factor authentication restricted access
How do I cancel my DNA Romance account?
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Closing your account and cancelling a subscription are two separate things, and it matters which one you need.
We respect your right to be forgotten, and you can delete your profile and raw DNA file in the settings section of your DNA Romance account dashboard
Deleting your account does NOT cancel a subscription you bought through the App Store or Google Play. Those are billed by Apple or Google, not by us, and they keep charging until you cancel them in the store. Cancel the subscription first, then delete the account.
See 'How do I cancel my subscription?' above for the steps for each store.
What is meant by olfactory systems?
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Olfactory is another word for your sense of smell, and what's interesting is that you can actually smell other people's scent profiles which correspond to different immune receptor proteins. If their natural body odor smells good, then you have different MHC genes and will be attracted to that person for a relationship or friendship. If they smell awful, then they are likely to have similar MHC genes to you and there is probably no sexual "chemistry" between you two
How is my DNA collected?
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DNA can be collected in many ways but DNA Romance use the "Cheek Swab" method. Our DNA Collection kit is simple to use, just swab the inside of both cheeks and return your sample to the laboratory by mail! No blood, no pain, no sweat!
How long does the matchmaking take?
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If you already have raw DNA testing data from 23andMe or another DNA testing company, simply upload your raw autosomal DNA to you profile and your matches should appear within ~2 minutes. If you don't receive your matches within an hour, please check your file is correct, and if the problem persists, please email tim@dnaromance.com
How long does the DNA testing take?
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The DNA testing takes 3-4 weeks to complete based on the time your samples arrive in the lab
How will my raw DNA data be used and analyzed?
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Your genetic data is encrypted once you upload it to DNA Romance, and then, the relevant DNA markers will be incorporated into our matchmaking algorithm. Within ~2 min, you should see your DNA Romance matches
Are all high-scoring DNA matches compatible with me?
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Our DNA romance score reflects your potential for chemical attraction with another person, but this is not everything in a relationship. We do our best to provide additional matchmaking information by including a personality compatibility score, and showing a picture, but every person is an individual with different experiences. Like any online dating site, DNA Romance provide a short-list of matches with whom you can communicate and see if there is a meaningful connection. No dating site can replace the need for a first date, to look each other in the eyes, talk, smell each other and mutually see if there is a meaningful connection
What to do on a first date? What to wear on a first date?
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There are many options for a first date, depending on your surrounding location. A date usually involves a meal or drink. The classic first date is a chat over coffee or tea, but alternatively, you could ask them out for lunch or dinner. During the pandemic, we encourage you to make a video call to get things started. Some first and many second dates onwards involve an activity like ten pin bowling, or going to a sports game. After a good first date, you should follow-up and suggest a second date.
As for the dress code, we recommend that you gauge this based on your proposed location and activity. In most instances, smart casual is a safe bet